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Manners & Etiquette Monday.....Gym Etiquette

9:08 PM




                               January being a month of resolutions and usually fitness resolutions rounding off as some of the top ones. I thought it would be nice to have a little reminder on Gym Etiquette. So my ode to you lovelies who are new to the gym, who are re-sparking the gym or even those who a long timers but aren't sure about all and all.

*Eau de DON'T
Perfume and cologne is lovely and I adore it so, but there is a time and place for everything. Now drenching yourself with your favorite La Vie Est Belle perfume and your neighbor a few machines down prefers Jo Malone. Now add a few more hundred people and their favorites fragrances along with a healthy dose of sweat. Well then doesn't that just smell lovely. Proper gym etiquette would be to wear deodorant and be done until after your session and shower.

*Check yourself twice.
I see it to often women and men wearing items that are not to be worn for working out. I've seen men wearing jeans, and women wear entirely see through tights that were clearly mistaken as yoga pants. Constantly getting flashed by your hot pink panties are not your intent ( unless it is) is not typically the environment you want to set yourself or those around you. Proper gym etiquette would have you check your attire twice from every angle before hitting the gym.

*Not time to be a superstar
When taking classes at the gym it can be loads of fun getting into the groove. Yet constantly overdoing it, making up your own routine despite the instructor is a bit to much. If you are interested in being a leader in a class then consider asking the gym if they are hiring. Proper Gym Etiquette would allow the instructor to shine considering it is their class and not you.

*Be Honest
If you are new be sure to tell the instructor before the class that you are. Or if you have a specific injury let them know also. They are there to help you and can suggest modifications to help you not get yourself hurt. Also if you are new to a gym usually be sure to have an employee to go over equipment with you. Everyone was a newbie once. Better to learn to do things correctly versus getting hurt.

*Selfie Nation
I understand we live in a selfie generation. I have been guilty of some, but please be aware of your selfies. Taking a selfie while holding up your shirt in the mirror of your six pack screams self-absorbed. There is a difference between self absorbed and pride in your achievement...we just don't need to see it in the middle of the gym. Also be considerate in your selfie of the people around you. Not everyone appreciates being your social media. Proper Gym Etiquette would be to snap your photo when in the privacy of your home.

*No Hovering
Being mindful of personal space, and intimidating others while on machines.
Proper Gym Etiquette would be when people are working on the machines don't hover them as a bee. Allow them to breathe and do their routine at ease and not feel as if Sting is watching every move they make, and every step they take. When they are done the feel free to lay claim to that said machine.

*Clean after Yourself
When you are doe with your machine Proper Gym Etiquette would make sure you wipe down the machine with the proper cleaners usually provided by the gym. When you are sweating from everywhere your hands sweat too. So please be mindful of others and your sweat.

*Proper Spacing
When choosing your machine to work Proper Gym Etiquette would have you choose 2 machines down from the other members. Unless if  it packed and the only machine available is smack dab in the middle or empty enough to have the pick of the litter.

*Bubbler Time
Being considerate to others it's a running theme. Proper Gym Etiquette would be that if you are at the water bubbler and you have a jug to fill be aware. If there is someone behind you with no jug allow them to go before you, then fill up the jug

*Privacy
Respecting others privacy and honest your own. Be considerate of others. Not everyone can handle when others walk around in the nude. Makes them uncomfortable. Proper Gym Etiquette would have you cover up properly no matter how much of your body might resemble a greek god.

*It is not a Concert
As easy as it is to get caught up in a great sound the thing is not everyone wants to hear your lovely singing voice (or lack of in my case) Proper Gym Etiquette would have you work out fiercely and quietly.

*Last but not least
After you have established yourself and are much more comfortable at the gym be considerate if you see another newbie. Proper Gym Etiquette would have you honor them and possibly give them a helping hand.

Do you have any to suggest? What are your pet peeves at the gym? Did I miss one, do you have a question? Let me know.

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Manners & Etiquitte Monday...Handwritten Thank You Notes

3:00 AM


                              Who doesn't enjoy receiving a hand written note in the mail? In this day in age were everyone texts, and emails, their expression of gratitude there really is something warm about a note. I wish I could take credit for this one, but Mr. Darling is the one who I've learned to be consistent about this particular matter. This week I find myself  reminding my son and daughter to write their thank you notes that are I dare say almost 2 months over due. Since I would be working with them on the process I found it fitting to continue it over to the blog. So lets go over what makes a lovely handwritten Thank You note.
It is always correct to write a thank you, when in doubt write! People always appreciate them they are warmer and more personal then a text.

Some rules when a note is not necessary
*If you open a gift in front of the giver a sincere verbal is sufficient.
*Gifts from family members a sincere verbal thank you is fine if in person, if not a phone call is fine.

When a Thank You note is should be expected
*Wedding and Baby Shower Gifts
*Wedding Gifts
*Graduation, Promotion Gifts
*Gifts received when ill
*Sympathy Gifts
*Gifts of money
*Holiday and Birthday Gifts
*Thank you gifts

When a  large group of people give you a collective gift a card of thanks is sufficient rather then individualized notes.

What to include in your note:

Please personalize your notes and make reference to the person as well as the gift.

Be enthusiastic, but don’t gush. Avoid saying a gift is the most beautiful thing you have ever seen unless you really mean it.

Do not send form letters or cards with printed messages and just your signature; don’t use email or post a generic thank you on your web site or group email instead of a personal note.

Do promptly acknowledge the receipt of shipped gifts by sending a note right away or calling and following up with a written note in a day or two.

Do not mention that you plan to return a gift or that you are dissatisfied in any way.

Do refer to the way you will use a gift of money. Mentioning the amount is optional.

Do not use being late as an excuse not to write. Just write, better late then never.

Do you write thank you cards? Do you feel that a simple text if enough? Would love to hear from you.




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Monday Series....Manners and Etiquette Monday

3:00 AM

                I will beginning different series on certain days. Monday's will be Manners and Etiquette Monday. I love manners and find myself always teaching my children about them. Since they seem to always be on my lips I am always blown away over how much our youth (of America) seem to lack them, along with plenty adults. Trust me I understand the time to let loose and enjoy it at the appropriate time even more so when done correctly. Though as the Mama's and the Papa's sang "Turn Turn Turn"  and so eloquently written in Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 "To everything there is a season." 


                        




                                       Manners and Etiquette Monday
                                          Curiosity killed the cat or the era of etiquette


   

       More and more people have taken the privilege of freedom of speech to the extreme. Everyone is speaking their mind and forgetting that even though you have the right to say what you want and wish you are not taking into consideration the person receiving thus said speech. Now please I understand the importance of speaking or asking questions when in times that are important but here lets talk about the wrong curiosity with freedom of speech. 

        *One does not ask when a dating couple is  ever going to get married, if a newlywed couple will ever have children. One does not ask a family with children if they are done?*

We have no idea what is happening in between that couple to ask any said questions. What if that couple can't have children? Question like that put that family in an uncomfortable mind frame with you.  Could bring up hurt, pain, many feelings we don't know about.

When a large family is asked "Are you done yet?" "Isn't that enough?" you are basically entering a combat mind frame with them. You are asking questions that one are extremely personal and truly are not any of your business. 

Now there is a flip side to this, if you find yourself on the receiving end of such comments please remember your manners also. I will admit in the past I did lose my temper a view times in which I have grown from. Especially when my children are around. They watch our every move and comment. They absorb good and bad manners. So one I will not be the one asking and when asked I remember another rule

                                     * A quaintrelle knows how to make others at ease*

Basically  just smile and say to yourself they were just making small talk.  Let me tell you that I’ve heard it all and then some. Most of the time, people don’t intend to be mean or critical and they just want to say something. So take the high road and smile and remind yourself you are in control of yourself and your action and I choose to act out of grace

Do you have a habit of asking questions or are you on the receiving end? What are the craziest personal question you've been asked? Would love to hear your feedback.

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